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To my Papa

by Yon Elcano on Monday, November 29, 2010 at 12:40am
 
I learned to live because you truly gave-I love Papa...


My Father a.k.a "Papa Edgar".

Papa, dadots.."edgar" the name I heard everyday from the beautiful mom I have. Papa has been such a wonderful dad to me. She protected me and my siblings from the destruction and lies of the enemy. He's not perfect. He has flaws, countless flaws that made me realized how precious I am because he has conquered it all. There were times when he used to tell me : " Ate, diba you will not marry becoz you love Papa?" (sigh and giggle) because he just can't put into words how special I am for him and how loved I am considering that Im his childdish little baby..so called "tayang"-my sweet name at home. When Papa is angry at me,he used to tag my full name in distinct manner " YON-YLDE'..hahaha what a name. Everytime i do attend my first day in class, my teacher will always asked me "on earth, how did u get your name?" so weird and unique *wink*. I myself, can't explain it that simple..becoz the name itself is complicated. I heard my Papa asking and  telling me so often, "Nak, mura namog igsuon sa imong Mama" (Nak, you look like your Mom's sister already), hehehe becoz he knew that I am my mom's accomplice and he salutes me for that.

Early in the morning, Papa would wake me up and tells me "kaon na ate, udto na" (eat already, it's late), and I will just smile and tell him "don't worry Papa, all the left overs will be my share"  and he would laugh and share to my cousins, grandparents and neighbors how much I enjoyed eating his adobo. How funny when everytime he asked me if "how's my school?" he'll then tell me that mom really got upset with my fees, fines and expenses in school. He then jokes that " ATe, your mom really got upset with you, but now that you're here she's smiling again but the truth is that she wants to talk to you" (giggling) . My Papa really makes my day complete. When he jokes and makes fun out of the gloomy atmosphere, he uses us as his props. There was one time when they argued the night before with Mama, early morning she called me " Ate, your Mama made war with me, and she hates me", I just then smile inside my room and said " Naku, you please her". He then wrapped Mama with blanket and carried her, while singing his "make peace not war song". What a moment, Mom laughed and they both ended up kissing (how lovely) and laughing at each other.

My protector.

I remembered when one of my mom's co-teacher enetered the house and asked about me, my Papa immediately told him " so, you like my daughter sir?" (laugh), I myself can't imagine of my Papa's initial reaction. I thought he made a joke again but he was serious that time. He then whispered to my Mama (when is he leaving?) Mama just smiled and BOTH of them allowed me to visit the PLAZA than stay home with that mister. Hahaha Papa really held me closer to him. I felt like a baby cuddled by my loving protector. My Papa may often forget the important details, but he never ceases to remind me and keeps texting me "you take good care ate ha, especially in your daily trips becoz in Manila uso pa naman ang carnapping" hahaha I'm not a car in the first place. He's really updated when it comes to Manila's news and headlines, from weather forecast to political issues, threats, calamities, even areas where things happened and accidents occured. He's so sweet everytime He says " Love you ate, Papa miss you"..(teary-eyed).

My confidant.

Papa never gave up, never gives up and will never give up. He has proven already things which made me wonder how did he endure it at all. There was time when I tried not to talk to him, he hugged me deeply and passionately grasping my hands and holding his breath while telling me " I'm sorry. I love you". It was few syllables, but it made an impact into my inner being. Papa allowed me to feel better each time I question things. During my college days, never in a week that they (with Mom) not visit me in the school. Early Monday, Papa will get me to the university, lunch time on Wednesdays they're there again to treat me in the middle of the week, and early Saturdays they'll get me in the boarding house and we'll have a family day all along until Sunday. How great those times were, they used to teach me how to ride a bus, for I was really afraid riding and paying it myself. I was with Papa and Mama always. I learned to get off a bus and traveled alone totally when I was third year college. Funny thing was, Papa and Mama argued on one thing: sketched on where, when and how will I cross the street to the school (laugh). They argued on what's the best place and what's the safest trick to prevent danger and make myself comfortable. Imagine! at my 4th year in the university, they still did that for me. Even buying a ticket way home and other details in life that I so appreciate and so much missed because I am here in a distant land.

My adviser.

"Men are alike ate" (wink again). Papa used to tell me that if I'll moved into a relationship, he's gonna hang him in front of the univerity's flagpole during a flag ceremony. How cute were his agenda hahaha but of course with a twist. I really had "guy-phobia" before because I often heard these words from dad. Never it happened in my life that someone, visited our home to asked for my dad's approval (which I think should be made if someone will attempt). Actually, Papa is such a humble, funny, easy-going and interesting man. He never misjudged people, and finds good side in life. He has deeper understanding and long-standing  patience in terms of taking good care of his children. I so admire his life and his being. I admire his passion and love to Mama in spite of their "ups and downs and ups" love story.

My strength.

I so thank the Lord for making our family bonded together because the heart and courage that my dad has is our foundation. He is a father and he keeps an eye on the details of his siblings. God has been so generous in giving our family the chance to excel and making an impact in the lives of other people. Papa used to say "mag amping ka ate, dili magpagutom, ikaw ra bya usa dinha". How comforting were those words that kept me alive and moving forward each and everyday.

MY LOVE.

To my ever loved Papa "Edgar" you made my life on earth so much special. You never made my day "sad" because you fought for "happiness" each and everyday. As I walk in this life, you will never cease to be my comfort and strength. I miss your hugs, your kisses, your advises and most of all your recipes. Thank you for cooking for us and for making our projects and for traveling with me. You showed me how blessed I am. You proved my heart that life itself  is more than enough. You will always be the firrst guy I loved (after God). I love you Papa! Happy 40th birthday on the 17th! Surprise!

Your bestfriend and mother as well,

Yon








To my one and only mother, a happy happy birthday!


by Yon Elcano on Tuesday, September 7, 2010 at 6:34pm 



Happy Birthday Mama!

Selfless Love.

I am so much blessed to have a beautiful mother in the whole wide universe. Imagine! you're my mom, how fantastic! The moment you decided to accept Papa to be my one and only dad confirmed the destiny of heaven for me to meet you. I have come to accept the things because you taught me that life is all about being selfless in love. How hard life is realistically, but because you never gave up on me Im still standing.

Indomitable spirit.

For the heart of courage and strength. She never failed to show it to me and the family. How magnificent mom is and how big is her hand to provide warmth and comfort. There were times when I am near the edge of cliffs but she held me close to her and wiped all the mournings in me.

Hero.

One thing I can be proud of about Mama is her comforting words in times of troubles and afflictions. I never heard her said : I give up" instead a life full of hopes and conquerable dreams were taught and embedded in me and my sioblings as well as to Papa.

Light.

A mother will always speak for their children, and my mom did it for us. She had faced all the challenges we had gone through because she were ever present in those times. The pains, heartaches that I had she knew it and she knows it. The moment I decided to work amidst the distance proved her beautiful heart and sacrifices just to let me realize and achieve my dreams, even she's hurting because of my absence.

Angel.

I can always say to everyone that my Mama has been one of heaven's angels. God has given me the packaged mother: a bestfriend with Papa, a counselor, a 24-hr customer service, a beloved and a blessed mother, why? not because of,  but because she is simply the love and ever love of my life with Papa (after God).

Eternal.

My love to mama and Papa will always remain the same. I am the daughter brought to life and she is the mother who led me to my greatest Father-God of heaven and Earth.

Happy Birthday mama! mahal, gihigma og pinalangga taka!

I will always be your daughter, simply your best friend (Yon)












My HOME, My FAMILY, My LOVE
I miss my family so much that it kills me to the bone.

I am scheduled for my trip to Bukidnon on September but the day of my proposal defense is on that date. Everytime I call, they're shouting for my name especially the very loving smart siblings-dayan,arthur and egan for their Ate's return.

I am scheduled for my trip to Bukidnon, simply because I love my family. They serve as my cushion especially in the deepest times. I want to see them laughing again and again as we cook "lechong baboy" at the back of our house with the big moon staring at us, watching us in the cold night.

I am scheduled for my trip to Bukidnon because MAma and Papa my loving and cutest parents prepared the best "native chicken" for me. How yummy woulld the tinola be, but I can't have it on that date.

I am scheduled for my trip to Bukidnon because I miss the people. It is my homeland. I have a vision to help my co-villagers in the community and build a better life for us all.

I am scheduled for my trip to Bukidnon, but God do not allow it this time. I know His ways are just. It is good, pleasing and perfect.

To God! I love uuuuuuuuuuuu above all

To Papa I love you!

To Mama I love you!

To Kuya Egan I love you!

To Arthur I love you!

To Dayan I love you!

To my Lola and Lolo and the rest I love you!


See you on _____:_)

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